In Buddhist psychology, it says that the major source of energy loss is about. The Vedas empty talk called "prajalpa". And that it is one of the main obstacles on the path of spiritual and material progress. The first estimate of the person we give by the way he speaks. It defines a person.
There is a close link between the mind and speech, mind and body, mind and soul. Healthy body, healthy mind and healthy we create a harmonious personality. Modern research has shown that the error in question is not accidental. They have a deep connection with the mental development. Stuttering and hesitation in the speech appear when there is a serious emotional disorder. Almost all diseases are psychosomatic in nature.
In the life of such a person may not be a place for physical ailments, indifference to self-knowledge and disorderly speech. That such a man the sage Patanjali called yogi. And whatever kind of yoga, whatever type of spiritual practice of people not engaged, all of the above is applicable to it in full.
From the speech of the health and material well-being. And this applies not only to the spiritual people, but also to those who want to succeed financially. The ability to speak and to listen very seriously studied in all business schools. Even in the criminal world, to climb in the gang hierarchy, must be able to control the tongue. There's a quote realized Buddha's saying that words can kill a person. Three minutes of anger can destroy a ten-year friendship. Words greatly determine our karma. Can ten years engaged in spiritual development, charitable activities, but insulting a great personality, you can lose everything at all levels and to degrade in the lower forms of life. Where did this come from? From insults. Vedic astrology says that the shadow planet Ketu is responsible for the abuse. Ketu - it is such a planet, which quickly gives the response, often instantaneously. Ketu also grants an exemption. But the negative aspect It punishes insults and derogatory speech, quickly depriving man of all, what he has achieved in the spiritual and material terms. In the Vedic civilization each person taught very carefully monitor their speech. While the man did not speak, he found difficult.
It - it is a manifestation of vitality. The most important thing for us is that the language - this is prayers, mantras and discussion topics, approaches the divine. It is also possible, as appropriate to discuss practical matters, to communicate with loved ones. But, most importantly, do not overdo it. Ayurveda says that it - it is a manifestation of Prana.Prana - the life force, the Universal energy. The more prana, the more healthy, successful, charismatic and harmonious people. So, first of all, the prana is expended when a person says. Especially when someone criticizes, condemns the claims being mothers. According to statistics, 90% of all fights is due to the fact that we are talking about someone bad. The most successful people are the ones that are nice to say and know how to control their speech. In the Bhagavad-gita says that the austerity of speech is the ability to speak the truth pleasant words.
Karma is defined by our speech. It is important to remember that if we criticize someone, you incur negative karma and bad qualities of character of the man. Thus, the law of karma. And as we take the quality of the person, which is praise. Therefore the Vedas call always talking about God and the saints, and to praise them. This is the easiest way to find the divine qualities. That is, if you want to acquire some quality, you just have to read about some saint who possesses them or with someone to discuss its quality.
It has long been observed that we acquire the quality of the man, which we think, and therefore speak. Therefore, even the Western psychologists are advised to think and talk about successful and harmonious people.
But the more in our selfishness and envy, the harder we talk about someone well. We must learn not to criticize anybody. I had one patient who sign on to a specific year was supposed to be a serious illness, but it was all fine. I asked him what he started to do this year. He replied that the vow that no one will criticize. And he said that really noticed that his life has improved, his spiritual practice has reached a new level.
Those who criticize us, gives us a positive karma and takes away our bad. Therefore, in the Vedas always thought that it was good when we are criticized. As it works to our karma? In the "Mahabharata," says that if you have something planned, something you want to do, no one does not say. As soon as you say this is 80% less likely, that this would happen, especially if you have shared with envious, greedy man. Why do people who speak little and thoughtfully, reaching more? They do not lose energy. Another simple rule associated with the speech - if we do someone something good and it boasted before the other, then at that moment we lose the positive karma and all the fruit of piety, who have earned this act. Bouncer little to reach. Therefore, we should never brag about their achievements, since at this point we lose all the fruits that have earned.
Thoughts determine it, so it is important not to think badly of anyone. The more we chaotic thoughts in your head, the more they manifest themselves in the language and the more it will be messy. Anyone who thinks clearly, he says clearly.
There is another level - learn to accept criticism. One of the qualities of the mind - that he is able to justify himself in any position. The lower level of the person, the more excuses you hear from him. Even committing the most heinous crime, a man without blushing justified. I conducted seminars in prisons, including dangerous criminals, I was very surprised that almost no one did not consider himself guilty. One of the main indicators, the man who is at a high level of development, by the fact that he quietly listened to the criticism.
The first rule of intelligent speech - before you say something sharp, count to 10. It may seem silly. The first time, we can hardly count to 3.But on the other hand, if you respond after a short pause, then your answer will be much more reasonable, because the first thing that comes to mind when we are criticized, abused - this desire to justify and answer sharply in response. Therefore, learn to 5-10 seconds to think before answering. Among other things - it will bring down the intensity of the unwanted emotion. A person who is engaged in self-realization, very little and thoughtfully says. I read in the life of some great people, they never responded directly to the allegations and generally tried not to say anything in anger. They put off the conversation the next day or even up to the moment until they calm down passions. For they znali- is anger and irritation affect their speech, the consequences will be sad, and sometimes simply disastrous ..
The second rule is a reasonable question - do not need to go to extremes. God manifested in the details, and Satan - in the extremes. I do not give a vow - "I'll be there like a fish." Especially if you are on your nature bright extrovert, you may only do harm. If your psycho-physical nature that you have to talk a lot, so to speak so that you and the surrounding obtained from this benefit. So be open and friendly, and most importantly - live consciously. It is important to remember that our level is determined by the small, insignificant actions - how we react to rudeness in the store, what emotions we begin to overflow when "unjustly" we are criticized, etc...
